Skateboarding Question Please Help!?

ok first off your not going to ever go pro. if you had dreams of skating professionally you can forget it. so with that in mind don't worry about getting real good. yes if you do want to get better and learn tricks you'll have to take your instructors advice but since your career doesn't plan on skating as a career just go out and have fun. secondly your a girl. you shouldn't be skating you should be in the kitchen learning how to cook and raise babies.. duh